I think that if matthew followed lauren graham so quickly and they seem so close is bc there is absolutely nothing between them, and specially matthew doesn't have feelings for her, so he can act normal and not awkard around her, but he still has feelings for courteney and he cant act normal around her,he tries to keep distance in order to not get hurt again, because I bet in the past, not being able to date her and seeing her marrying another man destroyed him emotionally. I dont blame him

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