Rachel asks a question and what does Monica do before going ahead to answer? She looks at Chandler for confirmation. That’s one of the scenes where we can all see what I’ve always seen, that Monica isn’t controlling over Chandler. She might have her bossy moments, but at her most vulnerable state and when it comes to taking serious decisions, they’re equals, two people depending on each other for everything, from the little every day stuff to the bigger life changing ones. And that’s why I love them the most; whatever happens they’re always an inseparable team.